It’s not always about sex
You noticed this sexy woman at the bar and you approached her. She passed on the cue and you approached her. And you asked her if she would like to get laid. The next step pretty unexpected for you, she became furious and slapped you and abused you. And you were shown the exit door by the bouncers.
So what went wrong here?
The simple answer is that your perception is incorrect. The lady who sat there wasn’t a prostitute. She was just enjoying the music groove and her drink. Unlike women, men generally look for a short stint as far as relationships are concerned. Things don’t work out the same way all the time. If the woman is genuine and a passionate then you will face a tough music each time you make such an attempt. Not all men are like that though.
It’s not always about sex when it comes to relationships.
This is true especially when it comes to new relationships or first meeting. Every other guy walking on the street is looking for the same. So how are you differentiating yourself? Don’t be a self proclaimed nymphomaniac.
Women are more interested in decent and long term relationships. They need more security and our ten times more emotional than a man. They are not like commodities which can be used and thrown.
So what is that excites woman or what is that a woman is seeking?
They are seeking intelligence with unmatched charisma. Your persona should be self differentiating from the rest. Build a healthy relationship with your date or partner. Then indulge in sex and other sexual activities. Direct indulgence in sex with no feelings is like you are a customer of a designated prostitute.
Get more involved with her. Seek her interests and her dislikes. Take her out for a vacation. This could excite her and bring both of you a lot closer both emotionally and physically. There is a broader picture to life other than sex. It is important to build relationships and sustain them. Discover love and romance in your relationship. Sex will eventually come into your relationship, naturally.
Remember the one who will be remembered as the romance king was not the first to hit the bed with her woman but the one who was the first to win her heart. This is the mantra of being able to sustain a healthy relationship.











